Ep. 337 ShawnLaRé Brinkley, LMFT

Healing Trauma and Finding Purpose Through Holistic Therapy

ShawnLaRé Brinkley, MS, LMFT, is a licensed marriage and family therapist and the visionary CEO and President of Living Loved Healing. With over a decade of clinical experience, she has dedicated her career to understanding the "why" behind the human experience, working with individuals and couples to navigate the complexities of trauma, relationship challenges, and life transitions. Her practice is founded on the belief that healing is an organic, fluid process, and she employs an eclectic range of therapeutic modalities—including art, music, and movement—to meet her clients exactly where they are.

Jeanne Pepper and ShawnLarae Brinkley at March 11th Interview @PeppTalks Studios

Guided by the wisdom, "To she whom much is given, much is required," Shawn has built a reputation as a fierce advocate for those facing the deepest of struggles. Her professional journey includes extensive work with survivors of domestic violence, human sex trafficking, and childhood sexual abuse, as well as families grappling with the loss of loved ones to homicide, suicide, and systemic violence. She brings a unique combination of clinical rigor and profound empathy to her work, creating a safe, intentional space where clients can uncover their true selves before trauma shaped their narratives.

As a clinician, Shawn prioritizes "psychological flexibility," helping her clients develop the resilience needed to remain present and engaged even when life becomes difficult. Her work extends beyond the therapy room; she is an active public speaker and consultant on critical topics such as suicide prevention, bullying, and human sex trafficking awareness. By fostering a culture of safety, authenticity, and unconditional positive regard, she empowers her clients to transition from a place of feeling "stuck" or disconnected to a life of hope and deep, personal fulfillment.

Andrea Suchin is a dedicated caregiver advocate, entrepreneur, and the visionary founder of Wuggle™, a wellness company centered on improving nervous-system health through restorative sleep. Her professional mission is deeply rooted in her personal history; after her husband, Craig, was diagnosed with behavioral frontotemporal dementia (FTD) at age 54, Andrea’s world shifted overnight. While raising four children, she transitioned into a full-time caregiving role, navigating the brutal realities of a progressive, terminal illness that stripped away the life she and her husband had built together.

The years that followed were defined by extreme stress, sleepless nights, and the profound, anticipatory grief of watching a loved one slowly disappear. As she balanced the complex demands of medical advocacy, financial strain, and protecting her family, Andrea reached a breaking point where her own health began to fail. It was in this "survival mode" that she realized the critical necessity of rest—not just as a luxury, but as a lifeline required to continue the work of love and caregiving.

Dr. Marie-Ange Tagne’s life is a profound study in resilience, rooted in the vibrant culture of Cameroon. Raised by a devoted single mother who practiced medicine, Marie-Ange was exposed early on to the realities of hard work, intellectual rigor, and the vital importance of serving one's community. Her mother’s independence and unwavering commitment to her profession provided a powerful blueprint for Marie-Ange, instilling in her the belief that one’s circumstances do not define one's ultimate potential.

The transition from Cameroon to the United States for her education was a path defined by formidable obstacles. Navigating the complexities of international relocation, adapting to a new academic ecosystem, and overcoming the cultural isolation inherent in such a move required a level of fortitude that few possess. These formative years were a true crucible for her character; she did not simply endure these hardships—she transformed them into the foundation of her identity, relying on her innate ingenuity to navigate systems that were not always built for her success.

Michelle Edgar is a multifaceted force in the entertainment industry, celebrated for her ability to build brands and ignite change. With over a decade of executive leadership, Michelle has shaped creative marketing strategies and secured high-level partnerships at industry giants including Epic Records, ICM Partners, Warner Bros. Records, and Redlight Management. As Head of Partnerships at LiveXLive and former VP of Brand Marketing at Epic Records, she has spearheaded campaigns for iconic artists like Travis Scott, Mary J. Blige, and the Black Eyed Peas. Her professional career is defined by a consistent commitment to excellence and a "builder’s mindset" that seamlessly connects artists with corporate partners.

Jeremy Hamburgh is a California-based coach and the founder of My Best Social Life, an organization dedicated to helping neurodivergent adults develop the skills necessary to find community, friendship, and romantic connections. Before transitioning into his current role, Jeremy served as a prosecutor in New York City, where he honed his ability to communicate persuasively. He draws a direct parallel between winning over a jury in a courtroom and succeeding in a social setting, noting that skills like telling compelling stories, asking insightful questions, and active listening are magnetic in both environments.

Sunny Stone is a visionary singer, songwriter, filmmaker, and the Founder and CEO of Sunny Stone Entertainment. Her mission is to be instrumental in creatively and actively bringing hope to the world, guided by her personal philosophy: "Let my actions speak louder than my words." Sunny’s life is defined by a journey of profound resilience; born in Brooklyn, New York, she endured a harrowing childhood that included kidnapping, extreme malnutrition, and being a victim of commercial sexual exploitation between the ages of six and eight. After two years of being lost in a cycle of abuse, she was rescued by Child Protection Services. This traumatic chapter instilled in her a lifelong promise to advocate for the vulnerable and prevent others from suffering similar fates.

Gina Maier Vincent

Gina Maier Vincent is a visionary thought leader, master motivator, author, and empowerment entrepreneur renowned for her vivacious energy and unfiltered approach to transformation. Born and raised on Long Island, New York, Gina brings a distinct, fast-paced, straight-shooting East Coast drive to her current home in Southern California, where she guides high achievers worldwide to step out of stagnation and into their true purpose. She is the creator of the Exquisitely Aligned brand, spanning a globally streamed podcast, an original television show, and a highly personalized, soul-shifting coaching practice.

Gina’s path as a transformation expert began in 2003 when she discovered her passion for mind-body wellness through teaching yoga. However, her signature three-step "Exquisite Alignment Blueprint" was forged through profound personal adversity. In 2009, her husband Mark faced a critical health crisis requiring a life-saving double organ transplant. Stepping fiercely into the role of medical advocate while navigating an economic collapse, Gina discovered firsthand that time, money, and energy are sacred, finite resources that cannot be wasted on societal expectations.

This life-altering chapter compelled Gina to redefine success entirely, shifting away from external checklists and leaning into soul-level truths. Recognizing that millions of successful individuals secretly struggle with a persistent feeling that "something is missing," she founded Blissed-Out, Fit, and Feisty, LLC to help high earners shatter self-imposed boundaries. She teaches her clients how to break free from what she calls the "Conformity Trap"—the self-imposed prison built from the fear of failure and the judgments or "shoulds" of others.

Gina expands her global reach with her book, Exquisitely Aligned: A Pocket Guide to Your Magnificent Future. The guide serves as a practical blueprint for aligning daily decisions with authentic desires rather than chasing a one-size-fits-all paradigm. In this episode, Gina sits down with Jeanne Pepper to share her raw insights on why reclaiming your unique gifts is exactly what the world is missing, providing listeners with the permission and tools to start living an exquisite life today.

Bréon Rydell is a celebrated Irish singer-songwriter, poet, and intellectual whose creative output is inextricably linked to a childhood defined by a staggering act of violence. At the heart of his interview with Jeanne Pepper is the discussion of the unexplained murder of his brother at the hands of classmates when Bréon was just a young boy. This early encounter with senseless brutality left an indelible mark on his family and became the silent engine behind his lifelong pursuit of moral clarity and social justice.

For Bréon, music has never been mere entertainment; it has been a survival mechanism and a weapon against the same types of prejudice that shattered his family’s peace. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, his advocacy is deeply personal. In the episode, he reflects on how his own identity and the memory of his brother’s death converged to create a unique empathy for victims of hate crimes. This connection led him to write the hauntingly beautiful song "Into the Light," dedicated to the memory of Blaze and other LGBTQ+ individuals who have lost their lives to violent crime.

Growing up in a Scots-Irish musical family provided Bréon with the traditional foundation to tell these heavy stories. He first channeled his activism into the mid-1980s London music scene with his band ACCENT, recording at Abbey Road Studios and using his lyrics to confront sectarianism, homophobia, and racism. His later academic journey as a Visiting Fellow at the University of Heidelberg allowed him to analyze these cultural dynamics through a radical intellectual lens, which he describes as the "hidden syllabus" of his life.

In recent years, Bréon’s work has taken him to the front lines of global conflict, including a 2022 mission to Ukraine, where he produced a film trilogy to bear witness to the devastation of war. Whether he is filming in a war zone or composing orchestral works for campaigns to stop violence against women, his mission remains focused on human dignity. By sharing the specific pain of his brother’s murder and his own journey as a gay man, Bréon offers a roadmap for how tragedy can be distilled into a powerful, resonant purpose.

American Reich

The intersection of Jeanne’s advocacy, Eric’s work and Shereen’s lived experience is a study in meaningful synchronicity. While Eric was mapping the national landscape of neo-Nazi radicalization, Shereen and Jeanne were confronting the manifestation of those same ideologies on the ground in their own neighborhoods. Their shared presence in this investigative project highlights a crucial truth: that the work of a global journalist and a local activists are two sides of the same coin when it comes to defending democratic values and protecting vulnerable communities.

In this episode, host Jeanne Pepper explores the "unusual synchronicities" that bind her and these guests together. A striking example of this occurred when a PeppTalks podcast volunteer spotted Shereen in a Starbucks reading American Reich, a few days after its’ release, only to discover that Shereen was a featured subject in the book. This is the meeting that bridged the gap between the recorded history in Eric’s pages and the ongoing reality of Shereen and Jeanne’s advocacy illustrating how deeply the "New Age of Hate" has impacted individual lives and community structures alike.

The discussion moves beyond the statistics of extremism to the human cost of radicalization. Eric shares his perspectives on the radical right after the rigorous process of documenting the Atomwaffen Division's influence, while Shereen discusses the personal toll of being a visible target while standing up against hate and Jeanne shares perspective and the impact on her life of the actions of one Orange County radicalized neo-nazi. Together, they provide a roadmap for awareness and resistance, emphasizing that the first steps in dismantling extremist movements is the courage to name them, increasing public awareness and persistence in telling the stories of the innocent people forever harmed by hate and its outcomes.

Finally, the episode looks toward the future of advocacy and education. With Jeanne’s advocacy, Shereen’s background in children’s literature and Eric’s expertise in historical reporting, they discuss how we can equip the next generation with the tools to identify and reject hate. This conversation is not just an analysis of a book, but a call to action for every listener to remain vigilant and engaged in their own communities, ensuring that the light of truth always outshines the shadows of extremism.

Jill Lloyd joins this episode to share a journey defined by both professional excellence and uncanny timing. For 33 years, Jill was a cornerstone of the Orange County community, serving as the high-profile publicist and media face of the OC Fair. In her interview, she reflects on the high-energy world of community events and how her decades spent managing public narratives eventually prepared her for a much more quiet and sacred calling in the world of deathcare.

During the conversation, Jill details her transition from the fairgrounds to becoming a certified life-cycle celebrant and death doula. She explains that this "second act" was sparked by a realization that traditional end-of-life services often lack the personal touch that truly honors a person’s unique history. By merging her expertise in storytelling with her training in holistic support, she now works to ensure that a person’s final story is told with the same vibrancy and authenticity with which they lived their life.

A standout moment in the episode is Jill’s discussion of the "strange synchronicities" that have appeared throughout her new path. She shares several "meaningful coincidences" that validated her vocational shift, such as the uncanny experience of being called to support a family whose name was also Lloyd. These moments of perfect timing, which she discusses at length with Jeanne, serve as a testament to the idea that her work as a death doula is not just a career, but a profound calling.

Today, Jill operates as a "death midwife," providing non-medical, spiritual, and emotional support to the dying and their families. She is a passionate advocate for reclaiming agency over the end-of-life experience, encouraging families to move away from rigid traditions in favor of bespoke ceremonies. Her presence in the room—grounded, intuitive, and compassionate—helps transform the experience of loss into a meaningful opportunity for connection and sacred remembrance.

Jill’s philosophy, as shared in this episode, centers on the belief that acknowledging the end of life with intentionality actually enhances how we live. By bringing her unique background in public relations to the bedside, she helps families weave together the threads of a loved one's legacy, proving that even in the final chapter, there is a beautiful story waiting to be told.

Trip Oldfield & JFCS of Orange County

Trip Oldfield serves as the Chief Executive Officer of Jewish Family & Children’s Service (JFCS) of Orange County, a non-sectarian organization dedicated to strengthening the community through comprehensive social services. For over 45 years, JFCS has acted as a vital safety net, providing a wide array of programs designed to support individuals and families through life’s most difficult transitions.

The heart of the organization lies in its diverse service model. JFCS is a primary resource for mental health support in Orange County, offering professional counseling for all ages, specialized support for survivors of domestic violence, and programs tailored to the needs of the local Jewish community. Beyond clinical services, the agency is deeply committed to senior care, providing Holocaust survivor services, case management, and social engagement programs that allow older adults to age with dignity and connection.

As CEO, Trip Oldfield oversees the strategic operations that allow these programs to remain accessible and effective. His work is centered on ensuring the fiscal health and long-term sustainability of the agency, allowing JFCS to respond to emerging community needs—from emergency financial assistance to food security initiatives. Under his leadership, the organization maintains its reputation as a reliable and compassionate pillar of the Southern California non-profit landscape.

By prioritizing collaborative partnerships and community-driven fundraising, Trip and the team at JFCS ensure that no one in Orange County has to face their challenges alone. The agency continues to expand its reach, driven by the core values of "Tikkun Olam" (repairing the world) and a commitment to serving neighbors of all faiths and backgrounds with professional excellence.

Addie Zinone is a veteran journalist, former Today Show production assistant, and retired Army Reserve soldier whose life story is a profound study in resilience and the pursuit of truth. After beginning her career at NBC’s flagship morning program, Addie eventually stepped away from the spotlight to serve her country, deploying twice to Iraq as an Army journalist. Her dual perspective as both a media insider and a military veteran gives her a unique vantage point on the structures of power and the weight of public perception.

For years, Addie’s story was shrouded in the complexities of workplace power dynamics. In 2017, she courageously stepped forward to share her experience regarding an encounter with a high-profile media figure, sparking a national conversation about the vulnerability of young women in professional environments. Rather than letting the narrative be defined by others, Addie has spent the last several years reclaiming her voice, advocating for systemic change and supporting those who have faced similar professional or personal traumas.

Beyond the headlines, Addie is a dedicated advocate for veterans and a mother who understands the necessity of fostering a more equitable world for the next generation. Her transition from the fast-paced world of New York media to the discipline of military service—and eventually to the front lines of social advocacy—showcases a woman who refuses to be silenced by the weight of her past. She speaks with raw honesty about the "shame" that often accompanies survival and the liberation that comes with telling the whole truth.

In this episode, host Jeanne Pepper and Addie discuss the intersection of trauma and the public eye. They explore the emotional toll of accountability and the strength required to stand firm when the world is watching. Addie’s insights serve as a vital reminder that healing is not a linear process, but a courageous act of defiance. Her story isn't just about what happened to her; it’s about who she became because of it, and how she continues to lead with integrity.

Brandi Morey-Pols is a mother on a mission to ensure that no other family suffers the "51 hours of silence" she endured. In August 2024, her 6-year-old son, Rowan Morey, was murdered by his biological father in a murder-suicide after he was not returned from a scheduled visit. Despite Brandi’s desperate pleas to law enforcement and Child Protective Services (CPS) regarding red flags and the father's erratic behavior, she was repeatedly told her son's disappearance was a "civil matter" rather than a criminal abduction.

The trauma of that experience led Brandi to found The Rowan Project, a non-profit dedicated to raising awareness about filicide and advocating for systemic reform. She has become a powerful voice in the Michigan State Capitol, testifying before the House Oversight Subcommittee on Child Welfare to expose the gaping holes in the current CPS and family court systems. Her advocacy is centered on the belief that "parental kidnapping deserves just as much justice as any kidnapping," and that a mother's intuition should never be dismissed by a bureaucratic checklist.

At the heart of her work is "The Rowan Act" (House Bill 4518). This landmark legislation aims to modernize the Michigan Amber Alert system by granting law enforcement the discretion to issue alerts for missing children even if the situation doesn't meet the traditional definition of a stranger abduction. By including criteria for children with special needs and those in danger during custody disputes, the bill seeks to eliminate the "civil matter" excuse that prevented police from acting in Rowan's case until it was too late.

In this episode, Brandi joins host Jeanne Pepper for a raw and necessary conversation about the reality of filicide and the "broken" status of child welfare departments. They discuss the legislative hurdles Brandi has overcome, the bipartisan support for The Rowan Act, and the importance of holding CPS directors accountable for failures in background checks and investigation protocols. It is a story of a mother’s love evolving into a protective shield for all children in the state of Michigan.

This interview serves as both a tribute to Rowan—a boy who loved golf and had an infectious smile—and a call to action. Brandi explains how listeners can support lobbying efforts, become "Court Support Advocates," and help designate August 31st as Filicide Awareness Day. Her journey proves that while the system failed Rowan, his legacy is now the catalyst for a safer future for every child in danger.

Shereen Rahming is a children’s author, educator, and activist whose journey began in Belize, where she was born and raised before bringing her vibrant cultural perspective to Southern California. Her background as an immigrant and a woman of color deeply informs her work as an educator and her commitment to fostering inclusive environments for children. While living in Ladera Ranch, Shereen became a prominent figure in the local activism scene, working alongside close friends to challenge the conservative and often exclusionary culture of South Orange County.

Her visibility as a community leader first aligned with host Jeanne Pepper in 2019, when both women were honored in the OC Family magazine "Inspiring Moms" edition—Jeanne as the cover feature and Shereen as a featured profile. This initial intersection was only a precursor to a much larger, darker narrative they would eventually share. Both women’s lives and their responses to tragedy and intolerance in Orange County caught the attention of Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Eric Lichtblau.

Shereen’s courageous testimony regarding the rise of extremist ideologies in suburban neighborhoods, alongside Jeanne’s own experiences, became central to Lichtblau’s definitive work, American Reich: A Murder in Orange County, Neo-Nazis, and a New Age of Hate (released 1/6/2026). The synchronicity of their shared presence in this book—a chronicle of the "New Age of Hate"—is what ultimately led to this reunion.

The final "strange synchronicity" occurred at a local Starbucks, where a volunteer spotted Shereen reading American Reich. Upon striking up a conversation, the volunteer discovered that Shereen wasn't just a reader, but a featured interviewee in the same pages as Jeanne. This moment of discovery bridged the gap of years and geography, bringing these two "Inspiring Moms" back together to discuss the power of voice, the reality of hate, and the hope that comes from standing one's ground.

In Episode 321 of PeppTalks with Jeanne, we are joined by a guest who is both a distinguished educator and a cornerstone of the host's own family: Richard Bernstein. Richard is a former honors civics teacher who dedicated twenty years to the Los Angeles Unified School District at Vermont High School. Teaching in an area so volatile it was designated for "combat pay," Richard developed a unique perspective on the failures and successes of the American educational system, specifically regarding how we prepare our youth for the complexities of the modern world.

Adam Brody is the visionary President and CEO of Strategic Kids, an organization dedicated to empowering youth through "play with a purpose." Growing up within the foster care system, Adam faced a childhood marked by trauma and instability. However, it was through these challenges that he discovered the transformative power of mentorship and the game of chess. These experiences became the blueprint for his life’s work: providing children with the strategic tools they need to navigate life’s complexities both on and off the board.

While studying at UC Irvine, Adam began teaching chess at local elementary schools, including Foothill Ranch. What started as a collegiate endeavor quickly blossomed into a mission-driven career. He realized that chess was more than just a game; it was a vehicle for teaching critical thinking, patience, and confidence—skills especially vital for at-risk youth.

In Episode 319 of PeppTalks with Jeanne, we are joined once again by Dr. Michael Gillman, a devoted father who first shared his insights on the show during Episode 304 alongside autism expert Melissa Reiner. While his previous appearance touched on the medical landscape of neurodiversity, this episode pulls back the curtain on the Gillman family’s private world, revealing a story of extraordinary resilience in the face of overlapping crises: autism advocacy and a childhood cancer diagnosis.

Michael and his wife, Rebecca, have spent over two decades navigating the unique challenges and joys of raising their son, Daniel, a high-functioning autistic adult and a verified math savant. Michael speaks candidly about the extraordinary measures he and Rebecca took to ensure Daniel was provided every educational tool and opportunity necessary to thrive in a traditional school setting. Their relentless advocacy ensured that Daniel was never overlooked by a system that often struggles to accommodate neurodiverse learners.

The true payoff of this dedication arrived in middle school, when Daniel’s extraordinary math ability was finally discovered—a breakthrough that Michael believes could have been missed entirely without the specific communication and learning tools they fought to give him. This foundation allowed Daniel to achieve a staggering academic trajectory, completing his undergraduate degree in analytics at USC in just three years before moving on to earn his Master’s at Georgia Tech. Today, Daniel thrives as both an analytics expert and a Professor of Analytics at Georgia Tech, a testament to the power of early intervention and parental belief.

However, the family’s strength was put to the ultimate test when Daniel was in elementary school and their youngest son, David, was diagnosed with pediatric cancer. Michael describes the agonizing reality of balancing the structured, intense needs of an autistic child with the life-and-death urgency of a sibling’s oncology treatments. This "double-front" battle required the entire family to lean into their bond unlike ever before, highlighting the profound emotional toll on the parents and their middle child.

Your host, Jeanne Pepper, facilitates this intimate conversation with the warmth and sensitivity that PeppTalks listeners have come to expect. This episode is an essential listen for anyone facing a "perfect storm" of family challenges, offering a message of solidarity and proof that with the right tools and unwavering advocacy, neurodiverse children can not only succeed but lead in their chosen fields.

In Episode 318 of PeppTalks with Jeanne, we are honored to welcome back Melissa Reiner, M.Ed., a titan in the field of autism and behavioral communication. While our previous conversation in Episode 304 laid the groundwork for understanding neurodiversity, this episode tackles the urgent need for authentic representation. As the long-standing consultant for the hit television series The Good Doctor, Melissa reveals how she works behind the scenes to ensure that autistic characters are portrayed with depth, dignity, and accuracy, moving far beyond the harmful stereotypes of the past.

A significant portion of our discussion focuses on Melissa's advocacy for "nothing about us without us." She shares her experiences navigating the entertainment industry, emphasizing why it is vital for autistic individuals to not only be represented on screen but also to be given the seat at the table in the creative process. For Melissa, representation isn't just about visibility—it's about opening doors to real-world opportunities and ensuring the media reflects the true diversity and capability of the autistic community.

Beyond the television studio, Melissa is dedicated to equipping neurodiverse individuals with the concrete tools they need for tangible success. We explore her "Declarative Language" approach, which shifts the focus from compliance to empowerment. Melissa explains how providing the right communication tools allows autistic individuals to navigate a world that wasn't always built for them, fostering independence, self-advocacy, and genuine connection within their families and workplaces.

As your host, Jeanne Pepper, I am continually inspired by Melissa’s ability to bridge the gap between Hollywood storytelling and real-life advocacy. This episode is a powerful look at how cultural narratives shape our understanding of autism and how, through intentionality and the right support systems, we can create a society where everyone has the tools to succeed. Whether you are a fan of The Good Doctor or a parent seeking better resources, this conversation is a masterclass in the power of voice and the necessity of inclusion